Tell us about yourself and your family

I was born in Hampshire and have one sister. I’m married to Bill and have two children – my daughter Rosemary and my son Neil. I also have three grandchildren, but as all my family have settled in England, I don’t see them as often as I would like.

What made you come to Scotland?

I came to study at university in 1953, and met Bill the rest, as they say, is history. After graduating I worked for a couple of years in a Civil Service post.  Once my children were in their teens, I re-trained as a Social Worker, which I found a difficult job, but very rewarding.

Where did you live before coming to Falkirk?

We lived for a few years in Glasgow, and then moved out of the city to Bearsden. We had a young family by then, and it was a great place for them growing up, as there were lots of children of their own ages.

Did you belong to any church when growing up?

No.   My family weren’t churchgoers, although my mother came from a Methodist background. However I attended a Church of England Junior School, where we had to learn our catechisms.

When did you develop an interest in Church?

At university I was a member of the Christian Union, and later spent some time attending the Baptist church among others. We came to Falkirk in 1968, but it was another 10 years before I joined Falkirk Old Parish, as it then was, in Mr Paterson’s time as minister.

What about Church activities you’re involved in? 

 I’m very involved with Traidcraft and Christian Aid; I help at Snack Lunches; I take elderly people to church in my car; and I am a Pastoral Visitor.

Do you have any memories of any church events? Which you particularly enjoyed?

I recall especially one particular service. It was at Hallglen, the first time when we were seated facing the side. In my opinion, it was a really joyous service, with so many people taking part. I love music, though I have no musical talent, and get real pleasure from the Ceilidhs we’ve had.

What does the church mean to you?

It means refuge and strength. I haven’t found it easy to be totally accepting of everything we learn about Christianity, but I still feel that this is the one place where we are met with genuine caring for one another.

How do you see the Church’s position today?

Like many others, I share concern about falling numbers and what this means for the future. I also feel disappointed that people seem to find it so= hard to accept change. I still see the church as a place which upholds certain standards but without being judgmental when people have problems.